An overwhelming past several days. I’m in Steung Treng, despite having to take a boat down from the Laos Border after hearing a warning from a foreigner living in the next province over about the significant possibility of bandits on that road. As she put it, “They shoot you then rob you. It’s not something to mess around with.”But she also admitted she didn’t have specific knowledge of that road, only other roads in the area.
I hemmed and hawed for a bit, then decided I wasn’t exactly in a position to make an informed decision about it, and that getting shot was not a good experience for my first day in a country.
Today I’m headed to Banlung, for which the road is supposed to be very well travelled and quite safe (part of the reason the road from the Laos border to here is so dangerous is that hte only people on it are illegal loggers and wildlife poachers - or so I was told). Once I get to Banlung, I have to ask around and decide if it’s safe to go down to Sen Monorom, or whether I should go back to Steung Treng, and then down to Kratchie.
Two days ago was filled with frustrations or encountering serious bribery and corruption for the first time, trying to cross the border. I had heard the border guards asked for bribes in the form of “stamp fees,” and that it was very possible to wait them out to bring the price down.
It’s very odd to bargin a bribe, but that’s pretty much what we did. We got it down to $3 for the Laos exit stamp and $1 for the Cambodian entry stamp.
Then was the boat. We started at $50 for 3 people for a 1.5 hour ride on a speedboat, which is ridiculous (I paid $5 for a 2.5 hour ride per per person up to Phongsali in Laos). I spent several hours bargining with the boat men, who were price fixing with each other. They picked the most arrogant, rude, unwilling to bargin boatman to bargin with us, by saying his was the only boat running. We sat around eating soup and then tamrind, occasionally going through the routine of “40 dollars.” “No, 30 dollars, we go.”
I eventually got them down to $30, but by then they had some other passengers, which meant they were still making a huge profit off us (locals pay around $5 or possibly less, I found out afterwards). I told them $30 for the boat, which is the terms we’d been bargining on for so long. This really pissed them off, and I almost lost us our ride altogether. We finally paid $35 for 3 people.
At one point I went down to the river to ask a boatman just arriving if he’d take us for $30, and he ended up having a huge arguement with the boatman we were barginning with. When I was talking with him, I could seein his eyes he really wanted to take us for the price I offered, but he was also very afraid. I thought perhpas the two men were arguing because the man we were bargining with before was now demanding a cut.
We ended up going with the second boatman, though we had to pay him $35 for pissing him off for refusing $10 a person. When we got to Steung Treng, we were talking with him (the previous bargining was long since water under the bridge), and it sounded like he has to pay more 10 dollars or more per boat of foreigners to the border guards in Cambodia.
Yesterday I went to go briefly check my email, and got to talking with the internet cafe owner, as the one computer with an internet connection was in use. He said he wanted to setup connection sharing so both computers could share one line, but he didn’t know how. I told him I’d help him set it up if he let me use the internet for free in exchange, and a deal was quickly struck.
What started as a half hour task, turned ithe way of all things Microsoft, and became a full day and most of the night project, culminating in a complete reinstall of the operating system on one of his computers. I bit off more than I bargined for, but I made a committment.
It ended up being fun, though technically frustrating. Ny invited me to eat lunch and dinner and breakfast with his family, and I slept upstairs with one of his cousins. A very good introduction to Cambodian culture, for which I’m very grateful.
Yesterday, I also met Drew, from the US Army. He’s here with a group of Americans on a project to recover the remains of Americans from crash sites during the war. A very interesting person to talk with, as were the other people I met from his team. Definitely a different walk of life to my own, in so many ways.
Tneh were all pretty interested in my trip, and said I was pretty brave, which I take as a high compliment, coming from someone in the military, the stereotypical epitomy of machoness and bravery. They invited me to dinner, which would have been a blast, but I ended up having to stand them up as the computers dragged on. They leave today by helicopter to the crash site, where they’ll spent the next 30 to 50 days doing excavating and surveying.
It all struck me as a lot of effort, time, and money to go to 30 years after the fact, and it made me wonder if there isn’t a point of diminishing returns. I spoke with a guy named Raz, an American immigrant from somewhere in Africa (I forget where). He served in the Vietnamese war, and used his education money afterwards to study farming and become an organic farmer. He was 63, and headed to the disco that night, a true hippy at heart. His theory on the whole thing was that by converting men listed as “missing in action” to “killed in action”, the government would no longer have to pay as much compensation to their families. Makes sense in a twisted way, though I’m hesitant to believe it.