Quick thoughts about mexicans and stereotypes July 7
Chilli fields near Buenaventura
When I was preparing for my trip, I have to say, I definitely had some preconceived notions about what it was going to be like, particularly, what sort of people I might meet. These preconceived notions weren’t necessarily concious, or intentional. But I definitely was expecting people to be pretty rough and tough, and have to really watch my back and my things, and be prepared for trouble. I think I had somehow thought that people would be mean, or aggressive towards me.
So far, I’ve seen nothing but the exact opposite. Everywhere I go, people are extremely friendly and welcoming. Even the gruffest of the gruff looking men in town will give me a wave, or a “good afternoon” when I pass by. Many people are curious as to where I’m from, and where I’m going. As my Spanish is still pretty horrific, I’m not big on the conversation front, but those who do speak some english are quick to strike up an easy conversation.
It’s interesting though. People here are very reserved. I haven’t experienced much of the unabashed, forward curiosity that I had when I was in Asia. People might go as far as to smile or wave, but unless I engage them, they’re just as happy to let me go about my business.
I went to a roadside grill that was serving tacos and quesedillas and hamburguesas for dinner tonight, and sat at the counter next to a man, and what I guessed was his daughter. We talked for a bit in Spanish, and then they started asking me questions in English. We must have talked for at least a half an hour. It seems to be that way wherever I go.
This all leads to the big question though - why do Americans have such negative stereotypes about Mexicans? Where do these stereotypes come from? Some Mexicans I have talked to here have said they think it might be because only the nasty element of Mexico tries to cross the border to the US, and these are the mexicans that Americans are exposed to.
I’m not sure that’s the answer, but I don’t have a better one.